No you are not guilty at all. Complicated here from my simple observations, I see there is a connection between our youth (10–20) and our unwillingness to have children. When we have a fun life at a young age or it could be in the middle (30–40), I don’t know but I want to have offspring who can feel that fun/happiness. Although of course I can share the happiness with anyone.

But when our youth or most of our lives feel struggle/”crazy”, we try to make “space” to treat those past feelings by not wanting to have children, because children will certainly take up the rest of the time we have, hehe.